LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT

Love at first sight.........does it happen. May be , may be not.
I start it with a beautiful quote
"Love at first sight, I absolutely believe in it, you have to just keep the faith. Who doesn't like the idea of meeting someone next day who would be love of your life".

I believe love at first sight happens. Anyone will definitely oppose it, it's natural.
"How can you love someone without knowing him/her?"
This is the first question everyone asks me.
So I design the answer in some simple ways.

First thing is love is not an entity, It's a feel. Only people who are in love can feel it.
So it's not necessary that everyone reading this blog can believe me fully until that person is in love( May also be possible others have different views).

Now I come to the question "How can you love someone without knowing him/her?"
I say do you have to know someone to love him/her.
hmmmmm....
I say there's no reason to love.

I ll explain.
let's say you love a girl. I ask you why you love her?. You start thinking for some reasons. You say she's very beautiful, I say she's not the most beautiful lady in the world there are many more better than her. You say I love her cause she's a nice human being and very understanding , I say there are many with these qualities buddy. You tell me any charaterstic, I ll show someone else with better charterstic.
I tell you why you love her, simple "You love her cause you are in love with her".

So if there's no reason to love someone, is it necessary to know someone to love.
(Ya the good nature, understanding qualities, caring nature these all are needed to sustain the relationship)

Now when you see someone first time and if this person is your love, something will happen inside you. This may be infatuation. Absolutely right. Many a times long term infatuation is considered as love. To figure it out you are in love takes a hell lot time, it's not easy at all, but im not going to teach you those tests(everyone has different set of rules). Now after some years when you realize that you are in love then you will definetly remeber the first day u saw him/her and say" Yes I had love at first sight".But not every true love is "love at first sight", so will not happen to everyone who is in love.


So to realize that you had love at first sight only two things required..........

1. Something must happen when you see him/her for the first time, I can't describe what's this something.
2. When you realize that I am in love (real difficult job), then think of the first step.


"Romance is a beautiful feel made by God, don't make it impure by desperation and running into the rat race"